12/8/08

Secret Santa Surprises Some.





Secret Santas in 3 states spread cheer, $100 bills

By CHERYL WITTENAUER, Associated Press Writer Cheryl Wittenauer, Associated Press Writer – Fri Dec 5, 9:15 pm ET AP –

ST. LOUIS – At a suburban Goodwill store on Friday, Theresa Settles selected a large, black comforter to warm her family until she can raise the money to turn the gas heat back on. A petite woman approached, her face obscured by dark sunglasses and a wrapped winter scarf, and handed Settles two $100 bills stamped with the words "secret Santa." "The only condition," she said, "is that you do something nice for someone. Pass it on."

"I will," Settles said, the only words she could get out of her mouth.

The secret Santa was a protege of Kansas City's undercover gift giver, Larry Stewart, who died of cancer nearly two years ago. Stewart roamed city streets each December doling out $100 bills to anyone who looked like they might need a lift.

Before his death in January 2007, Stewart told a friend how much he would miss his 26 years of anonymous streetside giving, during which he gave away about $1.3 million. Stewart, from the city suburb of Lee's Summit, made millions in cable television and long-distance telephone service.

The friend promised Stewart he would be a secret Santa the next year. "He squeezed my hand and that was it," said the Kansas City Santa, who would say only that he was an area businessman and investor. "I honored a promise."

Two secret Santas, one from the Kansas City area and the other from the St. Louis area, descended on thrift stores, a health clinic, convenience store and small auto repair shop to dole out $20,000 in $100 bills, hugs and words of encouragement to unsuspecting souls in need.

In this economy, they weren't hard to find.

Cynthia Brown, 40, was laid off three weeks ago from her food service job. Santa found her at the St. Louis County health clinic and gave her $100, exactly what she had asked to borrow from her mother a night ago to buy food.

"I have three daughters, and I can't get unemployment yet. I was down in food," she said.

Leotta Burbank, 50, of West Frankfurt, Ill., was at a thrift store Friday to buy decorations for her sister-in-law's room at a St. Louis hospice, where she is dying of pancreatic cancer.

When Santa gave her money, Burbank collapsed into his arms and wouldn't stop hugging him.

"God provides," she said. "This is real emotional for me."

For the secret Santas, it's not about keeping Stewart's memory alive as much as the meaning behind his legacy.

"It's not about the man, it's not about the money, it's about the message," the Kansas City Santa said. "Anyone can be a secret Santa with a kind word, gesture, a helping hand."

He said the money is given without judgment, but on the condition that the receiver pass along a kindness to someone else. Stewart began his holiday tradition at a restaurant in December 1979, after he had just been fired. He gave a waitress $20 and told her to keep the change and was struck by her gratitude.

Stewart also gave money to community causes in Kansas City and his hometown of Bruce, Miss.

The secret Santas want to expand their operation to every state, but so far only nine givers operate in Charlotte, N.C., Phoenix, St. Louis and Kansas City. They plan to start giving in Detroit this holiday season.




[we just never know who will be touched by even a simple kindness - a touch, gesture, kind word, smile, a cookie. :o) ]
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On the Net:

Secret Santa World, http://secretsantaworld.net


(Mr. Stewart - the Elf Himself!)

8 comments:

ROB said...

Great post Tink. I used to know an old guy much like that. He use to come into my store every year at Christmas time and hand out money to me and all the employees. Not quite the same but still very giving. I always tried to give it back to him but he would have none of that. Just goes to show there are some good people left in the world. Not many...but a few. It's sad that this even has to be a story though isn't it? It should just be a normal everyday thing. Giving...what a concept huh?

grace said...

I remember the man from St Louis.

Bless all those who do this service to humanity. Who can. I mean those who have the funds to do so. It is truly a heartfelt gift. I wish in my heart I could do the same, I can only send good wish, thoughts, and prayers for those in need. I give when I can, and it warms the heart to see such giving.

Lucy said...

God works in mysterious (and Santa-like) ways.

:-)

Nice piece, tink.

Hope you and the kids are keeping well. Enjoy your weekend and talk to you soon!

- Lucy xo

Lucy said...

P.S. That Secret Santa Society link looks intriguing.

Tink said...

What a nice memory, Rob I wish that people would be Christmasy all year. I'll be waiting to see what Santa brings Townshend! Grace, that's what I wish too .. that I had that kind of money to do stuff like this. But, the little things will have to do for me as well. :o) Lucy, I'm pretty sure that's true... that there are angels walking about. I know God works through people, no doubt. But, there's a part of me that believes in real angels who visit. Anyway, w/o sounding like I've popped a gasket, yes .. God does work some mysteries. lol I visited the Secret Santa World link and it's a nice website, recruiting people of like minds who have the financial resources to do this kind of charity stuff.

Hope everyone is Merry and Bright and that Santa brings Grace & June lots of nice treats!

Lucy said...

And remember, sometimes even just a smile to someone you meet on the street, is a gift in itself -- when you have nothing else to give.

grace said...

Happy Wholidays Tink!

:)

ROB said...

Merry Christmas Tink!
I hope you have a perfect day tomorrow:)